Squander three hours, pretending to programmer

Shit, how do I want to engage with these activities - I have my computer in the office can not set up properly. Just once and even reluctant to.

And I have to Wait dokleyka wallpaper. Yesterday had the strength to 6 lanes. In the morning, not one has fallen off. already a success. Hence, the algorithm described below - works. experience. ).

I am sorry that. Andrew Troy. quarreled with me. I have no quarrel with him. And if something wrong, then please forgive me. Sometimes I touch the strings of someone else's soul, without noticing. Nothing bad, I did not mean simply expressed his point of view.

I do not like quarrels and scandals, and in every possible way to avoid them, considering them to be a destructive element in the life.

My attempts to avoid arguments dating back to infancy: flogged me only once for the recipe. Yes, and then fail. Later homework no one checked, but at some point it just lost all meaning, because the level of jobs exceeded the level of knowledge of my mother. Although it was enough that my brother and watching their own academic performance. Although with varying degrees of success. :).

When I was living alone (10 classes), I could not face the fact that the place under the sun is worth the struggle. More precisely, it is achieved through the struggle. His first lesson of this kind I got in 12 years, when spending time in a children's sanatorium. The change lasted 61 days, in winter, half the team were internatovtsy (like orphans). Learn in a sanatorium after my school was not easy and napryazhno. I participated in all events - it has also become a habit since high school. In the end, I was opposed to the collective. And when my friends have taken the last ( in a sanatorium outbreak of mumps ) I found myself face to face with the whole team, to whom my existence and being set up as an example, carers and teachers. What could produce such a protrusion - I knew all of Sadiq. Pets do not like.

But by the tenth grade I was really podnataskalsya teenage cynicism. I learned how to skillfully rude and beat the word is much stronger than the hand. When one of the girls tried to publicly humiliate me (in the class were only 4 boys and only I have not tried shkeritsya ), trying to play on my lack of experience in communicating with the girls, the answer was succinct and tough response, after which she tried to go with me to the world .

The university was much easier. I quickly went into opposition to the team and I just did not take. But the teachers were noticed - why - I do not know. I was an A, I just carried away. And I also wrote a well-. Then and now. Yes, the organization of processes and skills I had already. So my career has gone up. A relationship with a course never come into conflict - they are until the end of the fifth year were friendly, neutral. What could I help, the help was taken. Rare and minor squabbles were associated with the moments when someone claimed my place (on the part mladshekursnikov ). But my position was so strong that I made no effort to argue or prove.

With the first serious conflict I ​​faced when alma mater waved his hand and beckoned me to graduate school. At the time I started working at the hospital. That gave me a future profession, the first useful contacts and ulcer 12pk. There I was in the hospital and faced with a live ' scheming '. In my department rulila an aunt. Auntie world - a real mother for all employees, but as soon as the brand-new employee vzbryknula - a quiet life for her was over, she was mentally destroyed and retired. I retired under cover of the conflict. I did not explain anything and argue. I just went. A month later I came to help make a report - for free. Just do not like to throw a client in the lurch. And I began to ask back: my boss, a leading surgeon, a leading physician, nachmed. I put forward the conditions - a three-day week. And they agreed to. At that time I was not sure that this success. But as said, it is necessary to perform. But once the conflict has been avoided.

For five years I've been doing business - it was all. But what is strange, miraculously, as if the client does not swear and did not beat his fist against the wall as soon as I get to talk face to face - ' Well, you know, I worry about it, let's accelerate. ' I do not know how I can bring both clients, but if I'm uncomfortable, I'm not arguing, I'm just going. Why torment yourself and stay where the bad?.

There are people who must be constantly in a state of combat. Only in this way they develop. I do not. I prefer to look for workarounds than punching head against the wall. Maybe head against the concrete - faster, but my head is more valuable.